I suppose what we are doing with Grandfather could be called both "catching up" and "getting acquainted" if we wanted to... Being in a place that can play with time so easily, those concepts can get really mixed up.
After all, it would be a little cruel from me to expect someone to behave as if they were a completely different person, wouldn't it?
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After all, it would be a little cruel from me to expect someone to behave as if they were a completely different person, wouldn't it?